The Big PlayBack

Good Morning - Afternoon or Evening - Depending on when you read this. I Know i said i would submit a post at least twice a week, but this has been a really busy week for me. I apologize. Last night me and a buddy of mine went to a club. As i was looking around and really asking myself why was I here - I decided to make the best of a bad situation and i started to pass out my cards advertising the why do cheaters cheat website. Its funny because as me and my buddy passed them out i think we made a conscience effort to only pass them out to women - Go figure.. I expected most of the women to respond back with, im gonna call right now -- men are dogs, or my last man cheated on me, but the most common response that i got was oh hell yeah i cheated... when i asked what made you cheat - it was almost always the same excuse that their man cheated on them first. I just cant figure what makes people think that 2 wrongs make a right.. Beyond that, because honestly we have all at some point in time played into that (trying to get even @ someone else - not necesarily in a relationship - maybe a freind or associate) - whats happens after both of yall have cheated? Can the relationship ever be the same again? I guess that would depend on what the same again is... Most relationships like this start out with cheating and cant be expected to end any differently. Honestly, if its gonna be like this - why dont we just be upfront with each other and have an open relationship ? You know why we cant? I can give you 2 answers for that. The first is the classic cliche' 'We just all want our cake and to eat it to' .. I really dont even have to further explain this i think we all get the picture... The second answer is that the majority of us like the games: Whether it is to play the games and believe it or not to be played by the games. Now i know you are probably saying who in the hell wants to be played? But let me ask you this -- no matter how much a woman may say they hate getting beat up every day by their spouse, why do they keep goin back or letting him come back to the house.. As much as we all say we hate the games that people play - how much of the games do we play or play into? I believe that the majority of us that complain about about people playing games - play games ourselves... We think that because we wanna be serious with the ones we like that we are out of that phase but are we really? What about that person that we only call when everything else falls thru? what about when we purposely not answer the phone to see how persistent the person on the other end is? what about when we cancel a date because a better option has suddenly come up? Just something to think about... Dont forget to log into the www.whydocheaterscheat.com website or the myspace page @ www.myspace.com/whydocheaterscheat or call our message line @ 404-551-5529.. Until next time..................